my wishlist - all bags

I love these bags!

five years

"Happy 5th year anniversary! To CVG - Wishing for a more successful and fruitful years!"

Every year, over two million companies have the opportunity to celebrate a business anniversary, yet only a small percentage realize what a powerful marketing tool an anniversary can be. Whether your firm is 5 or 105 years old, a business anniversary offers opportunities to promote your company, improve employee morale and boost sales.

The most powerful benefit is the confidence your anniversary generates in current customers and prospects. People like to do business with successful companies, companies they believe will be around to back their products and service, companies with the experience and know-how to get the job done right.

CVG - will hold a month-long celebration of this fifth anniversary milestone commencing today. Activities will include community outreach projects across each of CVGs' nine contact centers, family day celebrations across the country, appreciation activities for employees, a bell ringing ceremony to mark the exact anniversary of the first production call, and a dinner for employees celebrating their individual fifth anniversaries.

gossip girl - blair

Leighton Meester begin playing Blair Waldorf, the haughty and not-so-nice frenemy, on the TV show Gossip Girl in 2007 -- was based on the the popular book series about privileged teenagers at a fancy private school on the Upper East Side of New York City.

"She's obviously got the strongest story line and very sweet looks and gorgeous! Definitely one of the more interesting characters, i love watching her be a bitch plus, she and Chuck makes a great couple!"

http://www.cwtv.com/shows/gossip-girl

i've changed

I'm not whilin' out like I used to
I don't do the things I used to no more
I've changed for you
Lookin' back I thought I would never
Love like this broke so many hearts before
I've changed for you

I don't do the things that
I used to do no more
Everything that you do
I adore No more lies, no more games, everything I say I mean
And all the love you give me baby,it means so much to me
So don't take your love away
No one compares to what you do for me
And everytime that you see me baby
You take me in your arms, hold me
Trust me baby I wont ever leave you

Believe me, I'm yours forever
You need me 'cause
I'm down whatever {Damn I've changed}

Pull out the fine wine glasses
Dinner in bed (went and took some culinary classes)
Gotta stay sexy for you baby
Tighten up my body, workin' on my ghetto pilates
I'm not goin' out tonight
We can hit the sofa, cuddle up, satellite service
Oh baby whatever, let me accommodate you
Is there anything you like for me to change
I can cut my plats (my plats) but
I cant cover up my tats (Oh no)
I did some things that I can't take back

But baby it's true
I would change it all for you

Believe me (you gotta believe me baby),
I'm yours forever
Completely (completely in love)
I'm down for whatever (baby can change)

New and improved, bringin' out the best of me because the old me was lonely
Searchin' for my one and only
So happy that I found you
Saw the potential
And you made it so simple, to be loved
And I'll never be the same

I'm not whilin' out like I used to
I don't do the things I used to no more
I've changed for you
Lookin' back I thought I would never
Love like this broke so many hearts before
I've changed for you

by: jaheim ft keyshia cole

booty -- talk

"It's past midnight, my phone beep, 'Where are you?' It was a text message from one of my guy friends from previous job, whom by the way -- I haven't speak for a long time. It was stranged, what the hell was wrong with him? We were never close unlike my close guy friends. But, yeah I replied, 'At home. Why?' He asked, 'Would you like to go out?' I said, 'Go out? To eat, drink, talk?' He said, 'Yeah!' So I asked, 'Where?' Here at home, I'm alone.' I said, Oops! Sorry I can't..." -- Not a

booty call.

A phone call, text message, instant message or e-mail undertaken by one party to encourage the other to engage in casual sex, often occuring late at night. While either gender can instigate a booty call, it is most often engaged in by males under the influence of alcohol -- the one who receives the call and accepts the booty callers invitation for a sexual liaison.

"bootie call"

Never stop giving good love cause that’s what

I call you for Never stop baby

Give it up Cause I know where it came from you got more

I like playing games

And if it’s all the same

You can bring it on with the rough stuff

Give me your love

I don’t wanna be tamed

I need a man to be a real man

Take note of what

I got in store

Always finish what you start baby

And alway having me beg for more

You know I wanna be diggy down boy

But I don’t get around

Jimmy has to ride in your pocket or lock him in your wallet

It’s just a booty call

Bring it on

Bring it, bring it on ah

I’m keen on new ideas baby, and games are alway good to have

You never let me down

I’m always happy when you make me laugh

But don’t try to find

This heart of mine Emotions don’t come into my head

So don’t be misled My heart doesn’t need to be bled

Only trying to be smart baby

Don’t need the roller coaster ride

I’ve been and seen and done it all

Yeah! Don’t want you messing with my mind

So don’t be a fool

Keep this as your number one rule

Good loving’s not alway from the heart

You gotta be smart

Stay just the way you are

Bring it on

Bring it, bring it on ah

Breakdown -- It’s a bootie call

by: All Saints

redecorating a room

"I started redecorating my bedroom little by little -- I threw away things I don't need, had given some that I never used and soon I want to paint it with colors that I love ( yes, I want different matching colors! ) and probably buy new furniture, pillows, bed cover, curtains, i want to have bean bags, a dresser with bigger mirror and extra closet. Ha! It looks like, I have to stop shopping for clothes and shoes and start investing to redo my room -- I want everything done by the end of 2008!" =p

Here are some of the inspiring decorations I love:

http://photos.ivillage.com/

my mix and match style

"I love this dress from Victoria's secret, mix and match the colors with beige thong sandal and aqua tulip satchel bag!" ( for any occasion)

secret of the dungeon

"The Austrian Incest was the most horrible and unbelievable story I've ever heard and was recently aired in cable TV. "

(Elisabeth with one of her daughter Lisa)

Elisabeth Fritzl was drugged and locked in a cellar under the family home by her father when she was 18. He raped her for an incredible 24 years, Josef Fritzl, 73, sired all six of these incestuous children (plus a seventh who died at birth and was hurled into a furnace). The eldest three -- Kerstin, 19; Stefan, 18; and Felix, 5 -- remained imprisoned underground with their mother. The other three lived in an apartment upstairs with Fritzl and his wife who believed Elizabeth had abandoned them after running away from home.

Elisabeth Fritzl, 42; has been given medical clearance to begin testifying about her ordeal. She has already begun to answer questions and will continue to do so in the coming week. Elisabeth has said that she never wants to see her father ever again…..not even at trial. So in order to accommodate her wishes, all of her testimony is being videotaped so that she will not be forced to confront him in court.

Josef, arrested and currently awaiting trial, may face charges of rape, coercion, deprivation of freedom, incest and manslaughter (for a newborn that died).

http://celebgalz.com/josef-fritzls-incest-on-daughter-elizabeth-fritzl-story-all-photos/

circle of friends

Me, I'm a part of your circle of friends and we notice you don't come around Me, I think it all depends on you touching ground with us. But, I quit. I give up. Nothing's good enough for anybody else it seems. And I quit. I give up. Nothing's good enough for anybody else it seems. And being alone is the best way to be. When I'm by myself it's the best way to be. When I'm all alone it's the best way to be. When I'm by myself nobody else can say goodbye. Everything is temporary anyway. When the streets are wet -- the color slip into the sky. But I don't know why that means you and I are- that means you and.... I quit -- I give up.Nothing's good enough for anybody else it seems. But I quit. I give up. Nothing's good enough for anybody else it seems. And being alone is the best way to be. When I'm by myself it's the best way to be. When I'm all alone it's the best way to be.When I'm by myself nobody else can say... Me, I'm a part of your circle of friends and we notice you don't come around.

Eddie Brickell and the Bohemians

kitten heel

"I love my kitten heel (high) collection from Havaianas. Unfortunately they have been discontinued. My friends and colleagues are envious, how and where i got those, i said, I'm just lucky! he he he... I remembered, I'm so anxious to own them. Thanks to Len of Havaianas Phils."

appreciation

If the boss can get a Bosses Day, then it's only fair and appropriate that you, the employee, gets a day in your honor. Employee Appreciation Day (EAD) honors employees everywhere. Each year we celebrate it -- Recognitions vary widely, and may include a lunch, snack, cakes, or other munchies, and small recognition gifts.

For us, its an EAD card creation contest. The winning team with the most unique and artistic creation will get an invitation at Outback Steakhouse! Yummy! Besides, who doesn't want to taste the chargrilled ribeye or the outback style prime rib roast. =P

To Terry,
This is for you and we thank you...

... winner is not yet announced, let you know soon.

"the cheater"

the guy with a girlfriend

Scenario: When you first meet him, he seems so good to be true-laid back, super confident and genuinely interested in what I have to say. And after hooking up with him a few times, you start to think the unthinkable - he'd make the perfect boyfriend. Unfortunately, he neglects to mention that he is the perfect boyfriend-someone else's.

The Cheater thinks he's a gift to all the ladies of the world. Despite the fact that he already has a girlfriend, he feels no need to take himself off the market. Why bother? There's enough of him to go around. He uses convoluted-albeit-intriguing-logic to justify getting it on with someone other than his girlfriend.

You know exactly where this little tryst is going-nowhere. For example, "if you have a boyfriend, then the Cheater is the perfect person to cheat on your boyfriend.

Denial: In a case of a cheater hookup, its your new frame of mind. While you know very well that there's definitely someone else in his life, you make a very conscious decision to pretend that she doesn't exist. You don't ask questions, you don't think about it.

Karma: It's not your fault if you hook up with a guy who went to painstaking lengths to hide the fact that he has a girlfriend (what are you supposed to do -- submit everyone you meet to a polygraph test?). But if you keep coming back for more even after he's come clean about his romantic status, watch out. Pardon the use of a cliche', but what goes around comes around.

The Not-So-Ex-Girlfriend: He insists she's finally out of the picture, but it's more like she's out of town. When his girlfriend (or ex-girlfriend, or whatever he calls her) finds out that you're making nice with him while she was away - be ready for some Jerry Springer -- esque hysterics. Remember: Even though it takes two to tango, at the end of the day he's her beloved boyfriend and you're just the trash who be messing with her men.

Morning-After Attire: Ha! Right-like he'd ever let you sleep over at his place.

Bullshit Decoder:

he says: "I don't have time for a relationship right now."
he means: "I have a girlfriend and I'm hooking up with someone else. I don't know how long I can keep this up before I get caught."

he says: "Well, I was dating someone, but we've decided that we should start seeing other people.
he means: "I've decided that I need to see some other boobies -- Skinamax just isn't doing it for me anymore.

he says: "I'm still friends with my ex-girlfriend."
he means: "She's my baby's mama."

he says: "We were doing the long-distance thing, but it wasn't working out."
he means: "My girlfriend went to visit her parents for the weekend or she's on vacation."

he says: "We're not technically together."
he means: "She hasn't move in with me yet."

he says: "She means nothing to me"
he means: "Neither do you."

he says: "But she would be crushed if I broke up with her right now."
he means: "Why would I ever end it with someone who puts up with all of my bullshit?"

he says: "I want to spend time with you, but things are so crazy right now."
he means: "Isn't it crazy that polygamy isn't more universally accepted?"

How it Ends: The Cheater Hookup could end in one of two ways.

1. He decided he loves the girlfriend he has been cheating on and somehow manages to blame you for almost breaking them up.
   
2. She wages a war against you that makes the conflict in the Middle East look like a playground scuffle and you're forced to move to another city or transfer to another school.

He's really not busy at work, he's really busy having a girlfriend if:

• You hardly ever hang out at his apartment.

• On the rate occasion that you did hook up at his place and you scrounged around in his bathroom, you noticed that he didn't have a box of condoms - he did have a box of tampons or sanitary napkins.
  
• He has a picture framed of him with a girl he's hugging a little too tightly to be his sister.

• You only see him on off hours--and he never calls you to get together on Friday nights (known in relationship land as "dinner and a movie night").

• He programs you into his phone under your initials instead of your full name or even changes your name to a guys name.
  
• His phone rings constantly and he never answers it, but he compulsively checks his voicemail.
  
• He text messages you more frequently than he calls you.
  
• He always picks bars that are nowhere near his apartment.
  
• His friends act a little strange around you -- they smirk at one another when you walk into the room.
  
• He disappears for weekends at a time and turns off his cell phone.

The Hookup Handbook - Andrea Lavinthal and Jessica Rozler

fake friends

"Have you encountered people pretending to be your friend? Those who only remembers calling you if they need your help or if they want something from you? Who is talking behind your back when you are not there? Someone who uses you, talks about you to damage your social life and talks to you eventhough they don't like you?"

fuck you right back

See I don't know why you cryin' like a bitch
Talkin' shit like a snitch
why you write a song 'bout me
If you really didn't care
You wouldn't wanna share
Tellin' everybody just how you feel

Fuck what I did was your fault somehow
Fuck the presents, I threw all that shit out
Fuck all the cryin' it didn't mean jack
Well guess what yo, fuck you right back
Fuck what I did was your fault somehow
Fuck the presents,
I threw all that shit out
Fuck all the cryin' it didn't mean jack
Well guess what yo, fuck you right back

You thought you, could really make me moan
I had better sex all alone (ha ha ha ha)
I had to turn to your friend
Now you want me to come back
You must be smokin' crack
I'm goin' else where and thats a fact

Fuck all those nights I moaned real loud
Fuck it, I faked it, aren't you proud
Fuck all those nights you thought you broke my back
Well guess what yo, your sex was wack

You questioned did I care
Maybe I would have If you woulda gone down there
Now it's over
But I do admit
I'm glad I didn't catch your crabs I can't sweat that
Cause I got to go

Fuck what I did was your fault somehow
Fuck the presents,
I threw all that shit out
Fuck all the cryin' it didn't mean jack
Well guess what yo, fuck you right back.

"You made me do this..."

by: frankee

leave me alone..!

"you think wala akong alam? you are so wrong!"

tension headache symptoms

Don't get mad. Stress triggers tension headaches. When you feel the ache build up as you argue with your man, just try to cool down-or else you'll be suffering from a tension headache for anywhere from 30 minutes to a week. "Yes, that's how long it could last."

shorts

" Time to bring legs out of hibernation - bottom shorts." Its comfy and sexy - an alternative to miniskirts and short dresses. "Just bought a dozen, ha!" Believe it or not I can't sleep without buying them. I love wearing shorts more often whenever I go out. Its easy-to-wear, whether out for drinks, shopping, clubbing and weekending it gives a comfortable look.

How to wear shorts?

• Shop around for a length and fit that suits your figure. Go for comfort, so that you’ll be happy wearing them, and it that’s bottom-skimmingly short, then good for you!
• Shorter shorts will lengthen legs, whereas longer styles, like bermuda shorts, have the opposite result. So what if you're 4 foot 11 or 6 foot 2? Wear what you like. Just make sure to understand your proportions and know it’s ok to realize certain styles might not work as well on your body than others. Shorts work best on well-proportioned figures, but get the right length. After all, we can’t all look like models.
• Take a good friend for honest opinions. Show off slim pins, if you are blessed with them - treat yourself to some of the super short shorts on offer.
• Remember where you are. That means no hot pants or denim cut-offs for work - instead stick to tailored longer-length city shorts in grey, black, or white.
• Team with a floaty cotton or chiffon top to keep the overall look classy and "thrown together."
• Pairing your shorts with wedges are the must-have, strappy sandals or high flipflops.
• Accessorize with beads and bangles, to dress your shorts up and you are ready to take the hot streets.
  

room

no, these aren't ukay-ukay.
i just need bigger cabinet or maybe a walk-in closet... =P

shopaholic

What is compulsive shopping?

Compulsive shoppers, or shopaholics, have in recent years been spotlighted on television programs and women’s magazines. They have become topics of conversation in the realm of pop psychology. While the media sometimes uses the term loosely or in an off-handed manner, a true compulsive shopper suffers from a very real, and sometimes very frightening, lack of self-control. Without a doubt, we live in a very “spend-happy” society. As a whole, we are living above our means and many of us are drowning in debt. Many people, no matter their level of income, view shopping as a hobby. They take weekend-long shopping excursions, spend money they do not have, and often regret their purchases the next day. Does this mean that they have a problem? Not necessarily. A true shopaholic shops out of compulsion. They will make purchases long after they are over their heads in debt. They shop when they are feeling emotionally distressed, and use spending as a coping mechanism. They do not shop because they merely enjoy it, or because they are purchasing things that they have a need for. They buy things because they feel they HAVE to. A shopaholic is out of control.

Take a brief quiz and learn if you are a shopaholic.

True or False? Evaluate the following statements:
1. When I am feeling depressed, I usually go shopping.

2. I spend a lot of money that I do not have on things that I do not need.

3. I get a rush when I make a purchase, but I “crash” soon afterwards.

4. I have closets full of clothes that I have never worn, and countless gadgets that I have never used.

5. I often feel reckless and out of control when I shop.

6. I lie to my friends and family about how much money I spend.

7. Even though I feel very distraught about my debt, I still shop.

8. I feel emotionally upset and disturbed by my own shopping habits.

9. After a big shopping trip, I sometimes feel disoriented and depressed.

10. My shopping has caused problems in my personal relationships in one way or another.
Did you answer “True” for four or more of the above statements? If so, it is possible that you have a real problem with compulsive shopping.

Tips on Controlling Overspending and Treatment for Compulsive Shoppers

(1) Get rid of your credit cards, checkbooks, and ATM cards before you go shopping. Use only cash.

(2) If you spot something that you would like to purchase, never allow yourself to purchase it on the spot. Instead, walk away and give yourself a “mandatory waiting period” (or if you must-- ask the store to hold it for you. Most stores will hold items for their customers for at least a day). If you still want the item in a few days, then you can go back and make your thought-out purchase.

(3) Make a budget and put it on paper. Give yourself some “mad money” for each month, and do not allow yourself to purchase anything that is not in the budget.

(4) Write down everything you purchase for two weeks; groceries, gas for your car, the electric bill, and even that candy bar from the vending machine! This will make your more conscience of where your hard-earned dollars are going. Being more aware of your spending will also make your more in control.

(5) If you are overwhelmed with debt, contact a credit-counseling agency. There are several non-profit organizations (you can even find some online!) whose goal is to get your out of debt. They will help you consolidate your bills into a smaller monthly payment, and get your credit report in good standing once more. Most credit counseling agencies will also help you set up your monthly budget.
If you found that you answered many of the Quiz questions “True”, your may need more than a few frugal tips to help keep your spending under control. If your shopping behavior is interfering with your life, consider counseling. A counselor will be able to help you figure our why your spending habits are so out of control. A knowledgeable counselor can walk you through behavior modification techniques that have a proven track record. Compulsive shoppers sometimes suffer from depression or bi-polar disorder, which can be diagnosed and treated with counseling. Some shopaholics are diagnosed with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), which can also be treated with the aid of a psychologist or psychiatrist. With patience, persistence, and sometimes professional help, compulsive shoppers can get their lives back in control.

http://www.essortment.com/

can you change casual sex to a serious relationship...?

Question:

I've been involved in a casual sex relationship for over six months. We agreed from the start that we'd only be lovers, not boyfriend-girlfriend. The sex is great, but recently I've found myself wanting more of his time and attention. How can I transform this "bonking buddy" situation into more?

Answer from Dr Gabrielle Morrissey - Sexiologist:

You've come across the main casualty of casual sex. You can't change the rules halfway through the game. You agreed to a casual sex relationship from the start, so if you want to change the established relationship, then you have to really begin anew, with a fresh set of rules and boundaries.
It's interesting you phrase the situation as a casual sex relationship. This in itself is confusing, because many people who are involved casually make the mistake of not distinguishing between whether they are having casual sex or a casual relationship — the two are quite different!
Casual sex refers to engaging in the physical act of sex, plain and simple — as you refer to it, a bonking buddy, with the emphasis on the bonking rather than the buddy. Usually, these days, it involves having each other's phone number and being able to rely on each other for regular sex, at one or either's house, but that's it. No dates, no social outings, no meeting the family, no breakfasts out at cafes, no talk of the future, basically no relating outside a sexual realm.
This kind of relationship can sound ideal to many, but in reality is hard to successfully achieve for any length of time. Eventually one person (and heterosexually speaking, it's not always the woman, sometimes it's the man!) begins to connect through the sex and the act of sharing bodies creates a yearning to share minds, then interests, friends and lives. The casual sex starts to want to transform into a casual relationship … and then, as you describe in your situation, a more serious relationship.
A casual relationship is still different from a standard relationship, but must be openly negotiated as such or else confusion will reign and a split will be nearly impossible to avoid. The casual relationship involves sex — often first and foremost, because it's the glue keeping the relationship together, but there is more to the two of you bonding than only the sex. A casual relationship does have a social element to it. Here, the bonking buddy emphasises the buddy rather than the bonking, but still is a bonking buddy, not a boyfriend!
The real trickiness of the casual relationship revolves around the rules. When one is social with a casual partner, the question of monogamy is raised. Often monogamy is not assumed in a casual relationship, but if you are social together, issues are raised such as: can you cancel a date with your casual partner if a better offer with more promise presents itself at the last minute? If you're out together socially, can you flirt and pick up someone else? And if you don't, is it assumed the two of you will hook up and go home together? And is that a good thing or would you feel like the second banana? Are you prepared that by virtue of the relationship simply being casual, it has an ending pre-built into it? A casual relationship cannot last. It will always end, because it will be replaced by a newer or more permanent model, eventually.
Casual sex and casual relationships are not always so casual … many times someone gets hurt, because, like you, they can't help but get connected and subsequently want something that is more than casual. Can you transform a casual sex situation or a casual relationship into something more? Sometimes. More often not. But it's worth a try and you're more likely to have half a chance of success only if you admit up front you're changing the rules.

Dr Gabrielle's website

a bad boy

Before we explore why women fall for these men-boys, let's take a look at the bad boy. First of all, he's "bad," which usually means that he's not trustworthy and has a tendency towards cheating. He may also be a heavy drinker and engage in other behaviors that are either socially unacceptable or at least destructive to himself, his woman and their relationship. Next, take note of the word "boy," because he's not a mature man, but a "boy"a boy who has learned the art of manipulation, a boy who gets by on his good looks and charm.

To understand why some women find the bad boy irresistible, remember that we are attracted to others because of their patterns. And until people heal their wounds from early childhood, they are generally attracted to the unhealthy pattern of their opposite sex parent.
A woman may carry the bad girl pattern herself but not express it. She is excited by him, sees him as strong, masculine and daring. In a sense, she lives vicariously through his bad-boy behavior, secretly wishing she had the nerve to break the rules as he does.

"I can't help myself, even my head tells me to beware! He's not physically attractive, smarter or successful than the "nice guys" but he's hard to resist."

So what is it about him? This term is generally applied to males who treat women poorly. Do these behaviors ring a bell?

• calling at 8:30 on a Saturday night to ask if you want to get together
  not showing up for a date
• followed by no phone call or apology
• never having any money when you are out
• forgetting or ignoring your birthday and other important dates
• flirting openly with other women when you are together
• hitting on your good friend(s)
• making booty calls at 1am, after they've had a night out with others
  is doing time for a serious felony

What it is about the women who can't resist them? Actual statements from women who have a history of attraction to these guys.

• "It's never BORING with him. He's unpredictable and exciting."
• "He's strong, aggressive and self-assured; I feel safe with him."
• "It's not his fault; he's trying to get his life together."
• "I haven't met anyone else that makes me feel the way he does."
• "He's so charming and passionate."
• "He tells me how much he likes me, so he must really feel something for me."
• "He needs me."
• "He doesn't come across as needy and desparate."
• "I can't believe I've attracted someone like him."

"I don't believe that you can change one's personality. What you see is what you get. If the person decided to change its his decision not yours."

A woman's father may have been the bad-boy type who wasn't always there for mother or her. Or maybe she had a close relationship with her father as a child, but then, he grew distracted with work and other things and she no longer had this closeness with him. Whatever the circumstances, she is initially attracted to the bad boywho will never treat her right because, when he gives her attention, subconsciously, she feels she has finally gained or regained her father's love.

Whatever the circumstances, she is initially attracted to the bad boy who will never treat her right because, when he gives her attention, subconsciously, she feels she has finally gained or regained her father's love. Women who fall for bad boys like the bad boys themselves have self esteem issues. They sometimes believe that the problem is that they are not lovable: if only they were more this or more that, things would be different. She may also be a nurturer who believes erroneously that if she can love him enough, he will change and love her as she needs to be loved.

The bad boy is also usually quite charming and romantic in the beginning. Once the new wears off, he is more distant, but probably gives her just enough attention to keep her hoping he will eventually love her the way she needs to be loved. Unfortunately, their patterns fit together so perfectly, it's unlikely he will change. As long as he can get what he wants and continue the bad boy antics, there is no motivation to change. And she has what she has always known with father: the longing for him to love her. It is not fulfilling to her, but it is her subconscious desire to gain the love of her distant father that keeps her hooked.


http://www.helium.com - learn what you need, share what you know.

slang words - urban definition

"Searching the web slang words and its meaning - "Urban Dictionary"

An online slang dictionary in which approximately 80% of all words and definitions are sexually related.

A place formerly used to find out about slang, and now a place that teens with no life use as a burn book to whine about celebrities, their friends, etc., let out their sexual frustrations, show off their racist/sexist/homophobic/anti-(insert religion here) opinions, troll, and babble about things they know nothing about.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/

why men lie?

Some experts say men lie more than women do; others claim the opposite. Everybody lies. But why do men lie so much? Here are the top ten reasons men lie:

1. To get sex.

Men will definitely lie to get sex.

2. They love to, and in many incidences, they don't believe there's anything "wrong" with it. They don't believe they're really "lying if they withhold some of the truth."

Men are so accustomed to lying to other men (I'm convinced this starts in childhood) that it just seems natural for them to lie to women, too. Men lie to their co-workers; they get together in bars to drink and to lie to each other about their role in "the war," about their income, the amount of their debt, what their car will do, etc., etc. There seems to be some unwritten rule that "I won't call you on yours, if you don't call me on mine."

Men don't seem to think it's a lie if it's for a good cause: to avoid hurting someone's feelings, for example (especially their own), or to get sex (they believe they're entitled), or to get out of sex.

3. Despite their love of fighting and war, they will lie to avoid conflict.

Many men love nothing better than to play war-like video games, to watch or participate in sports, where violence and competition rule; they love the idea of going to war, especially when young (of course there are exceptions, some old men would still sign up if allowed to), but if their wife or girlfriend catches them in some nefarious activity, they'll lie like floor polish to save their own behinds.

4. They will also lie to get out of an unpleasant task, or when pressure is put on them to do something they don't want to do.

Pressure must feel to men like a noose slowly tightening about their necks, they react so negatively to it (is that what made "nagging wives" such a cliché?) Women often react negatively also, but they are less likely to react violently. No one likes pressure put on them. It would certainly be helpful if men felt comfortable expressing their feelings in the first place, and secondly, in a non-destructive way. Many men act as though feelings are almost alien to them - something that women were born with, but they weren't.

5. A man who is insecure is more liable to lie, or do worse.

Insecurity is awful for anyone, but men in particular seem to be vulnerable to it. I know a man who is terribly insecure; he needs to know where his wife is every moment of the day. He doesn't get angry or violent over her activities; he just needs to know. If he lapses and does something he feels is wrong and will reflect badly on him in her eyes, he is apt to lie about it. Women also lie for this reason. No one enjoys being busted. I know another, single man who lies all the time, but only about one thing. His age. He is actually 54 but tells the women he dates that he's 45. Some of them believe him. These men put pictures of other men on the dating sites (and think they can get away with it!); they may even go so far as to doctor their driver's license, or cut 5-10 years of their history away like pruning a bush.

6. They lie online because they think no one can hold them accountable (they're forgetting their wife, and that there's software available that will tell her exactly what sites they've been visiting, what they're saying in their emails, etc.)

The great thing about the Internet is that you can disguise yourself easily and tell any lie that appeals to you (that's also one of its great detriments). Men have been known to engage a teenage girl in a chat room in order to try to persuade her (1) that he's about her age; (2) that she'd be perfectly safe with him; and (3) she'll be missing a lot if she refuses to meet him. This is execrable behavior but despite the fact that there are severe penalties under the law, they continue to do it.

7. They'll lie if they feel trapped, or that someone is trying to trap them.

No one likes feeling trapped, but again, men are likely to react more...shall we say intensely, especially if they suspect someone's trying to manipulate them into marriage. The old, tried-and-true method of claiming pregnancy doesn't work any more - men know about birth control, too. I know a woman who met a man on Wednesday, and moved in with him on Thursday. In the first flush of love (sex) he allowed it. Now, while she's telling everyone they're getting married soon, he's trying to figure out how to get rid of her, and in this case, he's sure to feel justified in lying to her.

8. They'll lie if you bust them, and they see war coming.

This is closely aligned with #3, but there are slight differences. Men seem to feel more of an obligation to be truthful with their wives, less so with their children or bosses, but almost none with everybody else. If the man has done something he knows his wife won't approve of, he'll lie extravagantly to ward off her anger, or worse, disappointment in him. The stories they come up with are in the very back of the book, labeled "If all else fails..." These include "I had a flat tire," "I met an old friend from college" (he's never been to college), and "I was out all night because I got drunk and fell asleep in the car" (he doesn't drink, and doesn't own a car). Doesn't matter, he'll still lie and expect his wife to believe him.

9. They'll lie because their wife or girlfriend is stupid, or they think she's stupid.

My friend (was married) nearly every night would stay in town after work instead of going home to his wife, sometimes until midnight or one or two in the morning. When I asked him, how he could get away with this, he laughed. "My wife is so stupid," he said, "she thinks Superman is a real person. She believes everything I tell her." He's now divorced.

10. They'll lie maliciously, for money or some other gain.

They'll lie to get access to your savings, making you think you are the woman he's been looking for all his life, etc., etc. His money is tied up in investments, blah, blah, so he needs to use yours. Some of these guys are married to two or three other women they have bilked. If you find yourself embarrassed, feeling defensive or meeting ridicule when you tell your girlfriends about him, that's the time to tie yourself to a lamp post and think this over. If he really loved you, you wouldn't have to tell your friends, they'd already know. A man who is really, truly interested in the woman herself is difficult to get rid of.

So how can i tell if man is lying? "Look at his lips - if they're moving, he's lying."
Seriously, though, there are a couple of ways to tell: you can watch his body language. If he has his arms folded across his chest, he's expecting trouble and will probably lie to avoid it. His feet point to the way he wants to go, so if he's pointing at the door, stand back. Body language is useful, study up on it.

sprung on a thug

Could it be the way he touch me (How?)
He hold me (Why?)
He got me doin' all these things

La-la-la
La-la, la-la, la-la

She ride around in the S-5, that's me
She throwin' up the west side, nigga, that's me
Everybody know that The Game a pro at
Knockin' down everything, where the weed, dro at
Live where the dro at
Roll it up, blow that
So I can get high, while you lean the 6-4 back
And I did this all for you
All I ask is you rep Cali right
When they call for you

It was a low-key Saturday
This summer of '03
Me and my chicas chillin'
Feelin' fly in my favorite jeans
When this Chevy rolled up
Bouncin' four vatos deep
He was tryin' to get in me
In no time, I was all weak
In love

Boy, you never acting right
But you got me acting right
And all my real homegirls
Don't know why
And neither do I

Could it be the way he touch me (How?)
He hold me (Why?)
He got me doin' all these things
Guess I'm sprung on this thug
And I don't know why
He's hustlin'
He's ridin'
He's out there doin' all these things
But I'm sprung on this thug
And I don't know why

Sometimes, it can be crazy
Sometimes, it feels so good
And if anyone disrespects me
You'll bring out the hood
But it's all this back and forth
With you twisted up in court
Always say you gettin' right
But you just can't leave that life
Alone

Just me and you, somewhere, with a view
With our chinchillas on
Like we were in a zoo
It ain't about sex
I don't care what we do
All the bling and the cars, I'm a share with you
And when it is about sex, I'm a tear in two
Fingernails in my back, pull your hair, what it do

All my mijas bang on me
But they don't understand
"LaLa, we ain't seeing you
You always with your man"
They say he ain't no good for me
Is this really where I wanna be
"So why's he in your life?"
I don't know, but he works it right

La-la-la
La-la, la-la, la-la, la

by: lala