never ever

Throw yo' hands up in the air
If ya know he love ya
Tell the DJ play this song right here
If ya know he love ya
Let, let, let, let me see you 2-step
If ya know he love ya
It don't matter if you by yourself
If ya know he love ya

If that boy don't love you by now
He will never ever, never ever love you
He will never ever, never ever love you
If that boy don't love you by now
He will never ever, never ever love you
He will never ever, never ever love you

I know you think that I just be trippin' on ya
Boy you see, this ain't how I normally be
But I can't help this jealousy
Ooh it's taking over me, ooh I'm falling way to deep
Without you by my side I feel like I can't eat or sleep

But I, got to come down to earth, I don't wanna
But I, gotta let you go, but baby I dont wanna
And I, I gotta see, that you and me, ain't meant to be
That's why I tell myself

If that boy don't love you by now
He will never ever, never ever love you
He will never ever, never ever love you
If that boy don't love you by now
He will never ever, never ever love you
He will never ever, never ever love you

Baby, I can't help but fantasize
Wondering what it might be like
You and I sound so right
But I'mma let it go tonight, it ain't nothin'
Coverin' my eyes
Ain't gonna see it more than twice
I get it, I got it
Baby, baby

But I, got to come down to earth, I don't wanna
But I, gotta let you go, but baby I dont wanna
And I, I gotta see, that you and me, ain't meant to be
That's why I tell myself

If that boy don't love you by now
He will never ever, never ever love you
He will never ever, never ever love you
If that boy don't love you by now
He will never ever, never ever love you
He will never ever, never ever love you

[Young Jeezy]
Alright, alright, alright, okay...
I see ya point, I must admit
I grind, I grind, I grind all day
This paper's what I'm trynna get
Now normally when I'm paper chasing, I be having tunnel vision
And if it's really like that lady, just turn on ya television
And there go Young, I said there go Young, you trynna get it did
Just know I gets it done, she love the I cheat
She love the way I move, I sha, I show it to her
Shows about 100, goon
Its blacks this, black that
Black car, black flags
I really hope that's money that ya'll got off in them black bags
808's & heartbreak, states who puts in ???interstates????
Giving me a bad vibe, guess I'm just a bad guy

Throw yo' hands up in the air
If ya know he love ya
Tell the DJ play this song right here
If ya know he love ya
Let, let, let, let me see you 2-step
If ya know he love ya
It don't matter if you by yourself
If ya know he love ya

"Never ever..."

by: ciara

anywhere but here

Is this the end of the moment
Or just a beautiful unfolding
Of a love that will never be
Or maybe, be
Everything that I never thought could happen
Or ever come to pass and I wonder
If maybe, maybe I could be all you ever dreamed

Cause you are
Beautiful inside
So lovely and I can’t see why
I’d do anything without you
You are
And when I’m not with you
I know that it’s true
That I’d rather be anywhere
But here without you

Is this a natural feeling
Or is it just me bleeding
All my thoughts and dreams in hope
That you will be with me or
Is this a moment to remember
Or just a cold day in December
I wonder
If maybe, or maybe I could be all
you ever dreamed

Cause you are
You're beautiful inside
so lovely and I can’t see why
I’d do anything without you
You are
And when I’m not with you
I know that it’s true
That I’d rather be anywhere
But here without you

Is this the end of the moment
Or just a beautiful unfolding
Of a love that will never be
For you and me

Cause you are
You’re beautiful inside,
you’re so lovely and I can’t see why
I’d do anything without you
You are
And when I’m not with you
Yeah... I know that it’s true
That I’d rather be anywhere
But here without you

"This is dedicated to Obet, wherever you are and no matter what happens I'm always here for you."

by: safetysuit

david cook and david archuleta concert rocks!

with my cousins ♥ sugar and ariel and me with the crowd during the concert

"I had a blast last during David C. and David A.'s concert at Mall of Asia Open Grounds!"

love, sex and magic

"I love this video so sexy and hot..."




1, 2, 3 Go...
Ciara...
Sex...
Ciara...
Here we go, talk to 'em...

[Ciara]
Ya touch is so magic to me
Stangest things can happen
The way that you react to me
I wanna do something you can't imagine
Imagine, if it was a million me's talking sexy to ya

like that
Ya think ya can handle, boy if I give you my sleaze
And I need you to push it right back

Baby show me, show me,
What's your favorite trick that you wanna use on

me
And I'll volunteer...
And I'll be flowing, and going to go the distant place
And nothing but shoes on me
Ohh baby...

[Ciara & Justin Timberlake]
All night showing, just you and ya crowd
Doin' tricks you never seen...
And I bet that I can make ya believe
In love and sex and magic
So let me drive my body around ya
I bet you know what I mean
Cause you know that I can make you believe
In love and sex and magic

[Justin Timberlake]
Everything ain't what it seems
I wave my hands and I got you
And ya feel so fly, assistantin' me
But now is my turn to watch you
I ain't gonna stop you
If ya wanna grab my neck, talk sexy to me like that
Just do what I taught you, girl when I give you my

heat
And I need you to push it right back

[Ciara]
Baby show me, show me,
What's your favorite trick that you wanna use on

me
And I'll volunteer...
And I'll be flowing, and going to go the distant place
And nothing but shoes on me
Ohh baby..

[Ciara & Justin Timberlake]
All night showing, just you and ya crowd
Doin' tricks you never seen...
And I bet that I can make ya believe
In love and sex and magic
So let me drive my body around ya
I bet you know what I mean
Cause you know that I can make you believe
In love and sex and magic

This is the part where we fall in love (Ohh, suga..)
Let's slow it down, so we fall in love (Ohh...)
But don't stop when you give it to me
Ciara...

All night showing, just you and ya crowd
Doin' tricks you never seen...
And I bet that I can make ya believe
In love and sex and magic
So let me drive my body around ya
I bet you know what I mean
(You know what I mean)
Cause you know that I can make you believe
In love and sex and magic

All night showing, just you and ya crowd
Doin' tricks you never seen...
And I bet that I can make ya believe
In love and sex and magic
So let me drive my body around ya
I bet you know what I mean
(You know what I mean)
Cause you know that I can make you believe
In love and sex and magic

Yeah...
Uh, uh, uh...
Yeah, I see you on the floor
Get it girl
Love, sex and magic
I see you on the floor
You know what I mean
Get it girl
I bet that I can make you believe
In love and sex and magic, ow!
I See you on the floor
Get it girl...

by: ciara ft justin timberlake

why a sudden changed...?

"You've changed so much... I wish you knew how much you changed me.
I wonder if I changed you, if your life is different because of me.
My God, you taught me so much... Now we don't even talk to each other...
I guess that's what happened."

talking behind my back...? fuck off...!

Not to mention any names,
but there is one person to blame
To whom I know who you are
and have tolerated you thus far...

But witch, you're getting under my skin
and my patience is wearing thin.

If you've got something to say
say it to my face or you can stay
A lying, backstabbing little witch
for I'm not going to be a little snitch...

I'm not like you
I don't talk smack the way you do
And I'm never gonna stoop to your level, your ground
Because I'm the one that knows...
that you're the most envious witch around

You can try to ruin lives
but its not working
So wipe off that grin...
you better stop smerking

Close your rude mouth
close it tight...
for it's been know that you'll talk about somebody right??

I really can't stand you,
you're getting underneath me
But lemme tell ya something hun...

You ain't ever gonna reach me!!

"This is for someone who is a total fake person, you know who you are, get life and mind your own business!"

how to deal with a married boyfriend

Life is not black and white. There are many situations where people stray from the path. Sometimes there is no one at fault; it just is what it is. We all need love and sometimes in a marriage, it is no longer there or maybe never was. It is hard to judge others without walking in their shoes. If you do find yourself in love with someone who is married... be careful... you will be the one who will most likely get hurt, especially if there are children involved. A good man will put his children first and should never be expected to leave them for another woman.

Steps:

1. Don't expect any man to leave his spouse for you, especially if there are children involved.
2. Don't give yourself away to him. If you decide to be with him, keep yourself open to meeting other people but keep him informed of what you are doing.
3. Accept the fact that you will not be the priority in his life.
4. Be his friend, discuss what his reasons are for cheating and try to help him make it work with his family and then gracefully leave to find your own destiny.
5. Don't expect too much from him, he will have too many demands.
6. Love yourself and frequently examine why you are with him. Are you avoiding commitment? Are you suffering from a low self esteem?
7. Try to find someone you can discuss this with. Someone who won't judge you but who is willing to give you straightforward advice.

Tips:

• This may cause emotional pain, but realize that you are just the "other woman." Be very considerate of his wife and family; think about what you are doing and how it may impact others.
• People can judge others in this situation very harshly. Be prepared to deal with various reactions from people who know.
• There are plenty of fish in the sea. Remember that you have options.
• Love yourself.
• Be yourself and do your best to grow as an individual.
• Be honest with yourself and your boyfriend. Think about the reasons that you came together. Everything happens for a reason and lessons are available to be learned from every experience.

Warnings:

• Be cautious: the man may merely be entertaining his whorish tendencies.
• If there are any kids involved, they should--and hopefully will always--come first. If a man does not put his children first in his life, how can you respect him?
• Someone will get hurt in this type of relationship. Be prepared.
• The odds of a "happy ending" for you are always against you.

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how to get a man to marry you

Finding a guy is one thing, but keeping him around is another. Both are important steps. But what are some of the secrets of women who find men willing to commit? This is not an all-encompassing guide, but it may be a start in helping you develop deeper relationships.


Steps:

1. Love yourself. If you're not happy with who you are then don't expect others will be. Analyze yourself and change what you don't like. Positive self-esteem is key.
2. Know your role. An important part of any relationship is making both partners aware that they have a crucial and indispensable role to play.
3. Be emotionally grounded. Life with you should not be a roller coaster ride. Men generally like women who are stable, and vice versa. Sometimes this is a difficult task in our hectic lives, but it is not impossible. If you find yourself referred to as a "drama queen" in more than one instance, seek help and guidance in relaxing your nerves and calming your emotions.
4. Men are often slower to commit because they are very careful about getting to know a woman before they commit to her. They date first before becoming a boyfriend, they stay a boyfriend first before getting engaged. This is often hard for women, but there is a lesson to be learned from it. They make sure (as women should) that they feel compatible on all levels. This process must happen at its own pace. Pressuring a man to make a decision before he feels he knows you will inevitably lead him to doubt. Don't talk about marriage until either he brings it up or it's been about a year.
5. Keep dating fun, as it should be. If dating goes well, and your interactions are positive, he'll want you to be his girlfriend. If he builds experience with you and sees you as a person he wants to be with forever, he will get more serious about his future and work, start considering longer-term goals such as buying a home, and begin to discuss the future more and more. Only once he has made a decision about you and feels prepared and mature enough to propose will he do so.
6. Show confidence. Be sure of yourself, and ready to tackle whatever is before you. Many men love confident women. How can a man not feel privileged when he earns the esteem of a woman who values herself so highly?
7. Show endearment with class. A certain look. A scratch on the back. A soft kiss. Nothing "clingy" or inappropriate.
8. Appreciate a man's strengths. And tell him so, even if he's already prideful. Then support him when he is at his best, and avoid nagging or berating him when he is at his worst.
9. Be fun. This sounds basic, but it's a critical factor in any relationship. Have a sense of humor. Don’t be uptight or negative.
10. Overflow with joy. Women who are glad to be alive and are enjoying every minute of it may be irrepressibly attractive to men.
11. Glow. If the warmth of your heart is written all over your face, and your feelings for your guy show in the sparkle in your eyes, you will melt him. This is what removes all doubt - it's the important "silver bullet".
12. Practice humility. A humble person is not someone who downplays herself; it is a person who controls her ego and shows a genuine interest in others.
13. Date. It may not be obvious, but you actually have to go out on dates with a man and commit to a relationship before he will propose. The term "date" in modern culture is vague and sometimes redefined as something more than it is. Simply converse with a man and get to know more about each others' lives.
14. Don't assume. Some men wait slightly longer than you might want before they ask. If he is really worth marrying, you should be willing to wait (within reason). But if he is uninterested (or worse, making excuses) even after a long period of time, you need to reevaluate the direction of your relationship.
15. Remember that romance runs both ways. If you want to be respected and treated as an equal, do the same for him. Be romantic. Make him want to be in this relationship. Don't be a cheapskate. Men often enjoy romance too; pretending otherwise will only drive him away.
16. Remember that some men are perfectly willing to date women they really like but don't see as "marriage material." If, after six months to a year, you still haven't heard him refer to his future plans for marriage or family (with or without you) you may need to ask, "What qualities do you look for in someone you see yourself committing to?" If he mentions qualities he's complimented you on, take it as a good sign. If his compliments are largely related to sex, it probably is not.
17. If you feel the need to have a serious talk, reconsider the approach. Instead of coming at him with a serious tone (which will bring up his innate fear of pressure for commitment), be upbeat and positive. "I really love spending time with you. I really feel happy around you. But I just want to double check and see if we're on the same page. While I know it is too soon for us to worry about it, I do want to get married in the future and want to make sure I'm dating someone who has the same values as me. As we get to know each other better and better, are you beginning to see me as someone you could possibly see that happening with?"
18. Convey unconditional love. A strong relationship should be based upon more than convenience. Pushing past difficult times while remaining together requires a deep commitment and appreciation for one another. Unconditional love is developed over time. It is a choice we make, not necessarily a feeling we experience.
19. Set goals. Marriage itself only works when you're moving forward, so it's good practice to start now. Generally speaking, men like women who know who they are and where they're going, even if some of the goals need to be changed a bit down the road.
20. "Winning the Man NOT the Argument". In any relationship, disagreements will occur. However the key to resolving issues is not only to talk these through. You need to be able to discuss all issues effectively. Never bring up previously unresolved issues - they are in the past and that is where they should be left. Never discuss issues with your partner if you haven't resolved this emotionally with your self first. If thinking about an issue makes you feel upset or angry, then do not bring this up with your partner. If you do, there is a chance that the your emotions will get the better of you, you will not be thinking or communicating clearly if this happens. Which can lead to an argument. Discuss things objectively and think with an open mind. If you want him to understand you, you must be willing to understand and listen to him too.

Tips:

• A comfort with, and affinity towards men is non-negotiable. No man will commit to spending the rest of his life with a "man hater"... nor should he.
• If you disrespect a man by openly flirting with other men in his presence, don't expect a ring.
• If he is not showing a desire to marry after several months or longer, he may never want to marry you. You don't want a man to "settle" for you; your partner should see you as his first choice or something is wrong.
• Know what you are looking for in a man. Learn what personally attracts you to others to help find a better match. Be honest about communicating these preferences, but do so in subtle, caring manner.
• Ironically, women who give men an incentive to marry them may end up moving him in the opposite direction.
• It's certainly important to maintain who you are. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Whatever attracted him to you, be sure to maintain it. It is well-documented that men appreciate women who are beautiful, cute, and/or sexy in their eyes. If you disregard this fact, don't expect your man to view you as the "most beautiful woman in the world".
• Visualize being the woman who a man remembers fondly. Capitalize on your positive unique qualities, talents, or interests.
• As author Sarah Ban Breathnach said, "If you wait for the best, you will very often get it." Expect good things to happen. Create a mission statement - and be specific - defining precisely what it is you want in a man. Revisit and revise this statement from time to time. Prepare yourself mentally to meet and marry the man of your dreams.
• Show some confidence-women who have high self-esteem, are comfortable and happy with themselves, are irresistible to men. Smile, show off your love for him and yourself by showing how happy your relationship makes you!
• Always, always, always keep trying new things on multiple fronts. Whether it's new food, a new sport, or a new travel destination, this will keep life exciting, and you interested in your own life. Both men and women become depressed when they feel they know exactly what to expect out of the rest of their lives.
• Be positive, fearless, and enjoy your life! If you think you need him to make life more fulfilling, then you need to focus on you for a while and learn how to be whole without him. A man won't fill any void.

Warnings:

• Women whom men eventually leave might exhibit the following traits:
  
  
  • Complaining. It’s not good to be negative. After a while this is like listening to a bad disco record over and over. Believe it.
  • Thinking men are all about sex. Giving it out early and often will not necessarily keep a man. Hint: How soon first sex happens, in and of itself, has little to do with how long a relationship lasts.
  • Focused on physical appearance. Being cute is not enough to land a well-rounded guy forever. If you get a guy to commit to you based on looks alone, stay tuned for a miserable life together.
  • Taking no risks. They worry about everything and don’t have the guts to go for what they want.
  • Having general problems. OK, someone else in your past has nothing to do with your new guy. You must enjoy being a woman and be attracted to what makes men male.
  • Jealousy. Unfortunately, jealous people may also cheat on their partners.
  • Critical. Studies say that when people criticize others, listeners tend to consign the traits criticized to the speaker him/herself. Are you a walking, self-fulfilling prophecy?
  • Vanity: No guy likes a wife who goes around thinking she's better than everyone around her. Positive Self-esteem-Good. Vanity-Bad.
  • Don't be controlling. If you are a controlling woman, you are not showing him the respect he may need to feel good about himself.
  • Do not humiliate him or question his manhood. He will leave you for sure.
  • Control yourself, watch what you are saying even if you are angry, frustrated, etc. You can not get your words back.
  • Before going out of your way to get a man to marry you - consider why you would want to be married to someone who doesn't want to be married to you.

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how to be a mistress

Becoming a Mistress to a married man is not something to enter into lightly. Be sure you are doing this for the "right" reasons because you love this man, he loves you, and he cannot or will not sever his relationship with his wife. Having an affair with a married man is not a game. It is a commitment with a very high price tag. People can, and usually do, get hurt.

Steps:

1. Question your motives very carefully. If you find a mutual attraction with a married man ask yourself if you really want to pursue this relationship knowing that you will spend holidays alone and that you will always take a back seat to his family.
2. Be discreet. Realize that if you do anything to cause his wife to discover your secret, he will only hate you for it and you will likely lose him.
3. Be prepared to have to work harder than his wife to hold onto him. You are dispensable. She is not. She gets half his assets if they divorce. He has worked hard for what he has attained and hates the thought of losing it. His kids need him, and if he is the kind of man you think he is, he will not want to hurt his children.
4. Make your time together unforgettable. This means the fun, non-committal things such as mind-blowing intimacy, indulgent fantasies, and listening when he needs to talk. These are the things he wants from you. Be his fantasy girl. He has enough reality in his life.
5. Grant him the unconditional love he desires. If you really want to hold onto him, you must accept that commitment is not to be. This does not mean you become a doormat. Long-lasting affairs are built on trust, intimacy and respect, just as any good relationship is. Usually long-term affairs are affairs of the intellect as well as affairs of the heart and body.
6. Keep some personal time and space. Make sure he understands and respects that you have a life outside of him. You are not his servant; you are his respected lover and confidant.

Tips:

• It helps to be a very independent woman who thrives on challenges and enjoys being alone.
• Don't ever criticise how he looks in his racing leathers ( he looks like chorizo in a casing)and refer tho the fact that he is chasing his youth.
• Look at what you have as more of an arrangement than a relationship. You cannot ask a married man to be your boyfriend, because he is just not available to fulfill that role. You have to be ok with the idea of sharing him.
• Set up a joint web-based email address for untrackable flirtatious emails... and pics
• If during your affair, you meet a man of boyfriend material, grab the chance with both hands as in all likelihood your married man will never leave his wife.
• Leave no trails- it may feel good to read and re-read letters/sms/notes but it WILL lead you to getting caught.

Warnings:

• The likelihood of getting hurt is very high. Most married men will not leave their spouse unless they get caught. Even then, they may try to work things out with her, which usually means leaving you behind. If you try to "break- them-up" you will become the enemy to him and lose him, even if she leaves him.
• The more you expect from an extra marital affair, the more likely you are to be disappointed.
• Be careful you may not be as strong an independent as you think you are. You probably will get hurt.

Things You'll Need:

• Courage, guts, and a fair amount of non- traditional ethics.
• Hobbies to fill the time when he is with his first family.
• Flexibility (do some yoga)
• Someone absolutely discreet and non- judgemental to confide in, (nb completely outside the situation!) to keep yourself rational!

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goodbye my dear...

I'M SO DONE...
I'M THROUGH...
IT'S YOUR FAULT...
IT'S YOU...

CHORUS [T.I. and Ciara]

You can never ever say I ain’t gave my love,
You can never say I don't care,
Since the beginning I've been here, I ain't changed
my love,
Regardless of what you may feel,
Us breaking up today would be a shame my love,
Don’t think it’s such a good idea,
But you don’t show me that you appreciate my
love,
I had to say goodbye my dear.
My dear my dear...Say goodbye my dear...


Verse 1 [Ciara]

I’m packin’ up boy I got to leave,
Gave you my heart & my soul, I gave everything,
Spent so much time in the streets,
You lied, you creeped,
And I stayed here with you.
OOH...
Dont wanna do this to my family,
They wanna see us together, living happily,
But you are so unfair, you showed no care,
And that’s why I am through...
All the pain, (all the pain)
All these years, (all these years)
I hate to walk away,
But I got to say goodbye my dear,
I'm so done with you boy.

CHORUS
You can never ever say I ain’t gave my love,
You can never say I don't care,
Since the beginning I've been here, I aint changed

my love,
Regardless of what you may feel,
Us breaking up today would be a shame my love,
Don’t think it’s such a good idea,
But you don’t show me that you appreciate my
love,
I had to say goodbye my dear.
My dear my dear...Say goodbye my dear...


Verse 2 [ T.I.]

We've been going through this so long,
And you don't listen to me so now I'm showing
you,
You’ll see when im gone you’ll miss me more than

you you think you will
ain’t Nan nigga gonna do all that I done did
all the years I been knowin you
look at how we live and look what u got me goin
through
Girlfriend in your ear got you thinking I aint shit…
she say I aint doin nothing for you aint dat some
shit
I ain’t finna have this shit so imma let you have the
shit
better stop tryin’ me or imma hurt you and that

bitch
I don’t mean no harm, no
but I been tryin’ hard yo,
I oughta walk away…
she got a hold on my heart though (though)

CHORUS [T.I. and Ciara]

You can never ever say I ain’t gave my love,
You can never say I don't care,
Since the beginning I've been here, I aint changed

my love,
Regardless of what you may feel,
Us breaking up today would be a shame my love,
Don’t think it’s such a good idea,
But you won’t show me that you appreciate my
love,
I had to say goodbye my dear.

My dear my dear...Say goodbye my dear...

BRIDGE [T.I. and Ciara]

First we fuss and we fight and we break up
Then we kiss and make love and we make up
Do this over and over but no more shawty this time

im 4sho
First we fuss and we fight and we break up
Then we kiss and make love and we make up
Do this over and over but no more shawty this time

im 4sho

CHORUS [T.I. and Ciara]

You can never ever say I ain’t gave my love,
You can never say I don't care,
Since the beginning I've been here, I aint changed

my love,
Regardless of what you may feel,
Us breaking up today would be a shame my love,
Don’t think it’s such a good idea,
But you don’t show me that you appreciate my

love,
I have to say goodbye my dear.
My dear my dear...Say goodbye my dear...

[Ciara Ad-libbing at the end]

Tip I stayed down for you even waited around for
you

…I said but…but but but…
Now you cant never say I aint gave my love,
you cant never say I don’t care…

[Ciara speaking as music fades out]
damn why It gotta end like this….


by: ti ft ciara

i stay in love (live)

"I really love MC's i stay in love."

confused? if you are in love?

"How true is your love?"

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest??
-It isn't love, it's LIKE.


You can't keep your eyes or hands off of her, am I right??
-It isn't love, it’s LUST.


Are you proud, and eager to show her off??
-It isn't love, it’s LUCK.


Do you want her because you know she's there??
-It isn't love, it’s LONELINESS.

Are you with her because it’s what everyone wants??
-It isn't love, it’s LOYALTY.


Are you with her because she kissed you, or held your hand?
-It isn't love, its LOW CONFIDENCE.


Do you stay for her confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt her?
-It isn't love, it’s PITY.


Do you belong to her because the sight of her makes your heart skip a beat??
-It isn't love, it’s INFATUATION.


Do you pardon her faults because you care about her?
-It isn't love, it’s FRIENDSHIP.

Do you tell her every day she is the only one you think of?
-It isn't love, it’s a LIE.


Are you willing to give up all of your favorite things for her sake?
-It isn't love, it’s CHARITY.


Does your heart ache and breaks when she's sad?
-Then it's LOVE.


Do you cry for her pain, even when she's strong?
-Then it's LOVE.


Do her eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
-Then it's LOVE.

Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you to her?
-Then it's LOVE.


Do you accept her faults because it's a part of who she is?
-Then it's LOVE.

Are you attracted to others, but stay with her faithfully without regret??
-Then it's LOVE.


Would you give her your heart, your life, your death??
-Then it's LOVE.


Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love?
Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony?


Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of self?
Why?
The answer is so simple because it's...LOVE.

underwater world

"I went at Manila Ocean Park yesterday with Eller and we were so amazed and fascinated how the artificial falls was set, the coral life forms and the different shapes, sizes and colors of the underworld life. We enjoyed the 25-meter walk along underwater tunnel and experienced how marine animals interact with each other in their natural habitat."

http://www.manilaoceanpark.com/oceanarium.php

my love

[The Dream]
Radio Killa
did a song with the American Dream
They can't put it down like this, no no no no
On my baby, she my shorty
Oh, we rockin
They gotta trip all up on their breath
They hate on us

Now who’s right there every time you cry?
Gonna sleep and wake up on your side?
Endless love I'll always provide
They hatin on us and you should no why
But who’s be lovin you lately?
Who’s willing to go half on the baby?
Who who who’s trying to flag our ship?
They just tryin to get the love you give
But baby,

[Chorus]
Tell me what they know about my love (my love) [x8]

[Mariah Carey]
So they don’t understand why I'll never leave you
Explain my love? I don’t need to
Got everybody way up in our business
Cuz lovin each other stay on their wish list
I see them reachin everytime you call me baby
They on my back like a shirt, get off me baby
They don’t love me, let them wonder why
Here to stay and they going bye bye
Who’s the one calling you baby
Who’s in love with your ass like crazy?
Who who who’s gonna flag our ship?
They just tryna get the love u give baby

Tell me what they know about my love (my love)[x8]

My love is your love
There ain’t nothing in this world that they can do to make me give you up
Oh baby you will always be my girl
so let them do whatever, say whatever
Cuz I ain't givin her up

Tell me what they know about my love (my love) [x8]

sung by: the dream ft mc

songs - all about love

prank sinatra

"I met Iman (vocalist/composer) of the Pinoy Indie, Prank Sinatra - thanks for the cd (The "Peel" Sessions) I love it!"

http://www.myspace.com/akapranksinatra
http://pranksinatraband.multiply.com/
http://youtube.com/user/pranksinatra

questions

I wanna know why this feels so right
I wanna know why u hold me tight
Each and every night, it keeps me up all night
Thinkin about the things i like
Can't believe your in my life
I wanna know why ur the one
The things that they should have you've already done
God sent u straight to me
You make me wanna sing lalalalala

But when u look at me, do u see ur wife?
Can u picture us lovin' each other for life?
Are u playin' the role, just like the rest
These are the questions that i ask myself
If, another should come, who's finer than me
And she wanna take ur love away, would u leave?
Baby please answer these questions

Could this be my whole fantasy
Maybe u could just be too good for me
If i don't wake then i won't see
Cuz if im not the one u met, then who is in me
In the mist of the tears how come, i love u more, and more, and more
I never longed for no one, yes its true
Seems like these questions keep me here with you

If you really wanna be with me
Then ill say, i love u endlessly
One thing that i really wanna know
Will this end or will this grow
And now if u really be wanna be with
Ill love u endlessly
One thing that i really wanna know
Will this end or will this grow


sung by: blaque

benjamin button

"I just watched this amazing film The Curious Case of Benjamin Button... starring - Brad Pitt and Cate Blanchett. The movie is so great, I love the cinematography, the actors, everything is perfect!

The elderly Daisy (Blanchett) is on her deathbed in a New Orleans hospital as Hurricane Katrina approaches in August 2005. She asks her daughter Caroline (Ormond) to read aloud from a diary containing photographs and postcards written by Benjamin Button (Pitt). Caroline begins to read as the story transitions to Benjamin's point of view.

On November 11, 1918, just as the people of New Orleans are celebrating the end of the Great War, a baby boy is born with the appearance and physical limitations of a man who is 86 years old. The mother of the baby dies shortly after giving birth, and the father, Thomas Button, takes the baby and abandons him on the porch of a nursing home. Queenie (Henson) and Tizzy (Ali), an African-American couple who work at the nursing home, find the baby. Queenie, who is unable to conceive, decides to take the baby in as her own, against Tizzy's wishes. She names the baby Benjamin.

Over the course of the story, Benjamin begins to physically grow younger. In 1930, while still appearing to be in his seventies, he meets a young Daisy (Fanning), whose grandmother lives in the nursing home. The children play together and listen to Daisy's grandmother read from a storybook.

A few years later, Benjamin goes to work on a tugboat on the docks of New Orleans for Captain Mike (Jared Harris). In their free time, the captain takes him to brothels and bars. For the first time, he meets Thomas Button, who does not reveal that he is Benjamin's father. Later, Benjamin leaves New Orleans with the tugboat crew for a long-term work engagement. Before he leaves, Daisy makes him promise to write to her from "everywhere".

In Russia, Benjamin meets a British woman named Elizabeth Abbott (Tilda Swinton) and falls in love with her. Elizabeth is already married, with her husband working as a spy for the British government, but she has an affair with Benjamin. One day, on the morning of December 8, 1941, the day after the Pearl Harbor attack, Elizabeth leaves unexpectedly and leaves a note behind: "It was nice to have met you."

Benjamin gets caught up in World War II when Captain Mike's boat and crew are enlisted by the United States Navy. During a battle, the tugboat rams and sinks a German U-boat in the Atlantic Ocean. Most of the sailors on board the tugboat, including Captain Mike, die of wounds received from the battle. A hummingbird appears, symbolizing Captain Mike's spirit per an earlier conversation where Captain Mike talked about the miracle of hummingbirds. After this, Benjamin sees death in a different way, as opposed to the retirement home where death seemed more natural.

in 1945, Benjamin returns to New Orleans, and again meets Thomas Button, who is dying. Thomas reveals to Benjamin that he is his father and bequeaths all of his assets to Benjamin, including the house and the family button factory. Benjamin is now a wealthy man.

Benjamin learns that Daisy has become a successful dancer in New York City. Daisy attempts to seduce Benjamin but he refuses. When Benjamin travels to New York to meet Daisy at a performance, he finds Daisy has fallen in love with a fellow dancer. Later, Daisy falls victim to a car accident during a dance tour in Paris, inhibiting her dance career. Benjamin receives notice of this by telegram from one of her friends, and immediately travels to Paris to find her. Daisy's first comment upon seeing Benjamin is "you're perfect" – referring to his youthful appearance – but she turns Benjamin away, telling him to get out of her life. Later, Daisy regains the ability to walk through intense physical therapy.

In 1962, Benjamin returns to New Orleans and meets Daisy again. The two fall in love as both their internal and external ages become similar. Benjamin sells the house he had inherited from Thomas Button and moves into a duplex apartment with Daisy. Daisy starts a dance studio for young girls. However, the couple struggles with the issue of Benjamin growing younger while Daisy grows older. A couple of years pass and Daisy gives birth to a girl, Caroline. Benjamin, believing he can no longer be a "real father" due to his continuous reverse aging, decides to leave Daisy behind with his possessions and assets when Caroline turns one.

While reading this, Caroline learns Benjamin is her father. She becomes upset that Daisy took such a long time to inform her of this, but in turn finds that Benjamin sent her a postcard from everywhere for each of her birthdays telling her how he feels about his daughter.

Benjamin becomes younger and travels to various countries around the world. In 1980, he returns once again, now looking like a 25-year-old, to meet Daisy in her dance studio. At this point, Daisy is married to a widower, and Caroline is now twelve years old. Daisy introduces Benjamin to her husband and daughter as a long-time family friend. Daisy and Benjamin then meet privately in Benjamin's hotel where they share their passion for each other, while realizing that Daisy has become too old for Benjamin. Benjamin departs and continues to grow younger until he develops symptoms similar to dementia as a pre-teen, barely remembering his past. Daisy moves into the nursing home where Benjamin grew up and takes care of him as he becomes a younger, more confused 8-year-old boy with a growing temper, in 2002 the old clock was removed.

In the spring of 2003, an infant Benjamin dies in Daisy's arms. At the moment before Benjamin dies, Daisy claims to have seen through his eyes that he still remembers her. In the 2005 hospital room, as the power goes out due to Hurricane Katrina, Caroline leaves the room while Daisy passes away, just after wishing to see Benjamin and seeing a hummingbird fly by the window (a symbol of spirits after death).

http://www.readbookonline.net/read/690/10628/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Curious_Case_of_Benjamin_Button_(film)

kiss of death

I have always heard there was a difference
Between kissing someone and kissing someone you like
I thought such talk was nonsense it didn’t exist
Until the day you said I really feel like kissing you now
When you touch your lips to mine my insides explode into a kaleidoscope
My heart, body and soul collide and I feel more complete than I ever have been
When you kiss me, my mind comes to a stand still, I can’t think, I can’t imagine, I just know that whatever I dreamed is much better in reality.
When I kiss you back it’s with everything I feel for you, for us. Kiss isn’t just a touch or a feeling of lust. It’s the way my body expresses the things I feel for you that I cannot say in words – love.
I know I scare you sometimes with what I do, but I can’t help myself because when you kiss me I just can’t stop. I want to be apart of you, of what you are. I need you to feel my ripped soul, my happiness, fragile – whatever I am, I need you to understand. When you kiss me, my heart stops, and time ticks backwards, it’s like you steal the air from my lungs – I can’t breath. Pleasure mixes with pain – its agony. But I never want it to stop. Because before you even kissed me, before you gave me a hug, I already fell in love with the words that you spoke, those 3 different smiles you have, or the fact that you put up with my moods, or maybe it’s when you don’t run 500 miles in the opposite direction when I feel like I’m going to explode, and I get all tongue tied and the maybe a little weird. When you kiss me, it just seals all of that into a perfect space where I can be myself in whatever form. When you kiss me you make me feel free, like I am weightless, I don’t feel shy or angry or ashamed. I feel wonderful and I feel like I’m flying sometimes it’s so bad it feels like I’m dying fading into the world where only we exist, and time and space doesn’t matter and I want to make sure you know – I’m never letting you go.

http://profiles.lovingyou.com/library/poemview.php?pid=4398

famale sexuality

"Base on facts regarding the female sexual anatomy and its function, checked out this website for detailed information:"

http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm

Studies have shown evidence of female ejaculation in between 10 and 40% of female orgasms. However, research is being performed under thehypothesis that ejaculation can occur in all (or most) cases (assuggests the article linked in a comment by my colleague Pinkfreud-ga,which I recommend you reading too), but probably most of them in anamount unnoticeable in an area typically humid during sexualintercourse -- thus, those percentages would correspond to those womenwho do notice their ejaculation.According to some laboratory tests, the fluid coming out during afemale ejaculation would be a substance with some similarities to malesemen in its composition, produced by the paraurethral glands orSkene's glands, often called "female prostate" for its similitude inplacement, structure and, given the discovery of female ejaculation,function, with the male prostate, the responsible of the production ofsemen. More noticeably in women -- but also in men -- these glandshave also a function of sexual stimulation. They are in the basis ofthe so called "vaginal orgasm" (as opposed to "clitoral orgasm",opposition that is being criticized lately), and are in thephysiological structure of the famous G-spot or Gr fenberg spot, thelocation on the vagina anterior wall which would have sensitivity tosexual stimulation. More rigorously, when that area is being rubbed --either by a penis, finger, etc. -- the glands in touch with it arethose that experiment the stimulation. Thus, the female ejaculation ismore likely to occur when stimulating the G-spot. The websiteThe-clitoris.com "Dedicated to a Woman's Sexual Pleasure & Health",publishes excellent diagrams on how to stimulate this area and showingall the anatomy above depicted -- actually, you can have more extendedexplanations of the issue in it -- at their page "The Female Prostate,Female Ejaculation, and The G-Spot."

http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview/id/766455.html
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1267.html
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1905.html
http://www.doctorg.com/myth_reality1.htm

funny calls

"Working at a call center industry is not easy. Some people think that you just sit there and talk. But its not how it works, you always have to resolve every issue on each of your calls. Imagine answering 80-calls a day during night shift? Its very exhausting, it takes a lot of patience specially if the customer you are talking to is upset or irate - but on the other hand, it can be really fun too! Here are some of the calls and prank callers that will make you laugh!"

Little Becky, an Irish calling up a demolition company

Impossible phone inquiry

Crying call center agent

TM Barge Call

http://www.youtube.com/

chocolate

fall for you

"I'm thrilled. I feel butterflies in my stomach, my heart beats faster and this is the song I keep singing. No this isn't happening... not yet, not now." =P

There's a right or wrong to know for everything
And the truth is somewhere written in between
But there's always something missing in the dark
There you'll find the true condition of the heart

Well I can visualize the pieces of a dream
And it's not as far away as it may seem
But if truth be told, It's you that holds the key
To the question that defines my destiny

Chorus
I've been in love, a time or two
I've seen the world, but not with you
I wanna fly, and spread my wings
Don't wanna cry, I wanna sing
I wanna live, and take a chance
I'm not afraid, to love again
I wanna fall, fall for you
And I want you to fall for me too

I've had plenty conversations with my heart
Cause I want this thing to work not fall apart
So I ask my heart how it can be so sure
And it answers me because your heart is pure

I have every expectation that it's true
Cause my heart won't lie to me much less to you
But if truth be told its you that holds the key
To the future that becomes our destiny, whoa no, no, no

Chorus

Bridge
To the mountain snow that melts into the stream
My heart flows like the river to the sea
To the heavens up above
I pray to God our destiny is love


sung by: shanice

damage

"My song at the moment."

I know I'm kind of strange
to you sometimes
don't always say
what's on my mind
you know that I've been hurt by some guy
but I dont wanna mess up this time

and I really really really care
and I really really really want you
and I think I'm kinda scared
cause I don't want to lose you
if you're really really really there
then maybe you can hang through
I hope you understand
It's nothing to you

my heart's at a low
I'm so much to manage
I think you should know
that I've been damaged
I'm falling in love
there's one disadvantage
I think you should know
that I've been damaged

I might look through you're stuff
for what I don't want to find
or I might just set you up
to see if you're all mine
I'm a little paranoid
from what I've been through
you don't know what you've got yourself into

and I really really really care
and I really really really want you
and I think im kinda scared
cause I don't want to lose you
if you're really really really there
then maybe you can hang through
I hope you understand
It's nothing to you

my heart's at a low
I'm so much to manage
I think you should know
that I've been damaged
i'm falling in love
there's one disadvantage
I think you should know
that I've been damaged

sung by: tlc

it must be love

Are my clothes on right side out
or are my seams showing?
Is my room filled with moonlight
or am I simply glowing?

There was a time I talked right
sometimes I could make sense;
lately my words are scrambled,
and strangers find me quite dense.

If I’m not spilling it now,
it’s not in my kitchen.
Can’t seem to stop the daydreams,
or purring like a kitten.

I laugh out loud in long lines
and grin with secret whimsy.
Dash to the phone as it rings,
all out of breath and dizzy.

What strange malady is this
and how did I get caught?
It started when I met him.
oops, there goes my train of thought.

http://profiles.lovingyou.com/library/poemview.php?pid=3684

can't forget you

"For a loved one you always remember."

The dreams you dream
are merely images
of a darkened soul
inflicting pain on me.
Drown your acceptance
and believe in me.
The power of love
is all I need.
The warmth of your touch
the motion, the feel
entirely of your heartbeat.
Do you love?
Are you free?
Can you let go of
all those secluded worries?
I love your compassion
I can hear your heart beat for another,
to love you like I do.
Why won't you realize
my love is for you
I understand you want to leave
and I will release you.
But let it be known
it was only Love for you
I have ever shown

http://profiles.lovingyou.com/library/poemview.php?pid=4279

is your date interested?

"I had a wonderful date and it was 3rd day, after New Year's Day (January 3), he was my schoolmate in highshool - I can't even remember his face, when Jordan mentioned his name - who was my classmate during first and second year highschool and is one of his "barkada" and among his closest friends. I asked him to send me a photo of this guy (E.M.) to my email, when I got it, that's when I remembered how good looking he was, he's cute! Hehe... Then, we met. We talked a lot, we laughed and we had a great time together. I can say that he has a nice sense of humor. He made me feel comfortable and at eased when I was with him. He was amusing and fun to be with. To Jordan, thank you! If it wasn't from him, the start of the year for me is not going to be as wonderful and as colorful as it is right now! =D"

Body Signals That Say They Are Interested:

Does that look across the room mean they want you to come over? Is the way he laughs at your stories a signal he wants your phone number? Most times, to know what someone is truly thinking you'd need a crystal ball, but if you pay attention to the signals their body is sending, you may finally be able to throw away that tarot deck! The next time you're out on a date, watch for the following signs that show they may be more interested than you think!

1. Extended Physical Contact
Start paying attention to the little things. Does their hand accidentally touch yours? If so, how do they react? Notice whether they jerk it away quickly, or just simply leave it there. The more comfortable they are with close interaction, the more interested they probably are.

2. Lengthy Conversations or Frequent Communication
If someone frequently seeks you out to talk, or you share longer conversations than typical, it's a pretty good indicator that they may be interested, or at least open to becoming more than friends or acquaintances. Next time you find this happening, take the next move and ask them if they'd like to go somewhere with you.

3. Spends More Time With You Than Typical
Let's face it, you don't spend time with people you don't like. If someone tends to make it a point to always be around you, chances are there is a reason. Find out if they're interest is a romantic one and arrange to do a few things with them alone, like going to the movies or out to eat.

4. They Go Out Of They're Way To Be Nice
Pay attention to people who seem to be doing more than necessary for you. Are they always offering to buy you a drink? Do they frequently offer to drive you places? Do they always open doors for you? See if they are doing these things solely for your benefit, and watch to see if they are doing the same things for other people as well.

5. They Are Genuinely Interest In You
Is the person you're with truly interested in how you are doing? Do they offer advice and counsel when you need it most? Are they always there for you? If so, you may need to make sure you haven't been looking for love in the wrong places. Remember, some of the best romances are based on friendship.

http://www.lovingyou.com/