Life is not black and white. There are many situations where people stray from the path. Sometimes there is no one at fault; it just is what it is. We all need love and sometimes in a marriage, it is no longer there or maybe never was. It is hard to judge others without walking in their shoes. If you do find yourself in love with someone who is married... be careful... you will be the one who will most likely get hurt, especially if there are children involved. A good man will put his children first and should never be expected to leave them for another woman.
Steps:
Steps:
- Don't expect any man to leave his spouse for you, especially if there are children involved.
- Don't give yourself away to him. If you decide to be with him, keep yourself open to meeting other people but keep him informed of what you are doing.
- Accept the fact that you will not be the priority in his life.
- Be his friend, discuss what his reasons are for cheating and try to help him make it work with his family and then gracefully leave to find your own destiny.
- Don't expect too much from him, he will have too many demands.
- Love yourself and frequently examine why you are with him. Are you avoiding commitment? Are you suffering from a low self esteem?
- Try to find someone you can discuss this with. Someone who won't judge you but who is willing to give you straightforward advice.
Tips:
- This may cause emotional pain, but realize that you are just the "other woman." Be very considerate of his wife and family; think about what you are doing and how it may impact others.
- People can judge others in this situation very harshly. Be prepared to deal with various reactions from people who know.
- There are plenty of fish in the sea. Remember that you have options.
- Love yourself.
- Be yourself and do your best to grow as an individual.
- Be honest with yourself and your boyfriend. Think about the reasons that you came together. Everything happens for a reason and lessons are available to be learned from every experience.
Warnings:
- Be cautious: the man may merely be entertaining his whorish tendencies.
- If there are any kids involved, they should--and hopefully will always--come first. If a man does not put his children first in his life, how can you respect him?
- Someone will get hurt in this type of relationship. Be prepared.
- The odds of a "happy ending" for you are always against you.
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